A 5-minute, ask/answer form that helps me better understand how to help achieve your relationship goals.
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Question 1 of 8
Where are you right now?
Pick one.
Single, and not dating
Single, and dating a little
Single, and dating a lot
In a relationship
Question 2 of 8
How long has it been since your last relationship ended?
I am still in one
Less than six months
Six months to two years
Two to five years
More than five years
Question 3 of 8
Think about your last relationship. When a fight got bad, what did you do most of the time?
I got loud. I pushed harder.
I went quiet. I shut down.
I did both, depending on the day.
I walked out of the room.
I gave in fast to make it stop.
Question 4 of 8
What went wrong in your last relationship?
We could not talk without it turning into a fight
I lost myself in it
We wanted different things
Trust broke
I picked the wrong person
One of us pulled away
I still do not know
Question 5 of 8
Which one of these would help you the most right now?
Understanding why I keep picking the same kind of person
Healing from the last one so I can move on
Getting clear on what I actually want in a relationship
Learning how to talk things out without it blowing up
Learning how to stay calm when I get triggered
Knowing the early signs to watch for
Question 6 of 8
If a new relationship started next month, what would worry you the most?
That I would lose myself again
That the fighting would start again
That I would miss the warning signs again
That I would get hurt again
That I would not know how to keep it good
Question 7 of 8
What happened in your last relationship that you never want to repeat?
Say it in your own words.
Question 8 of 8
If I built one thing to help you get ready for love, what would you want it to do for you?